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Nidhi Aggrawal

For humanity, the perfect relationship is one of love 

The thoughts and sentiments I express in my writings have their philosophical foundation, but I lack the training of the professional philosopher. In India, philosophy infects the very atmosphere we breathe. Quite unconsciously, I shape all my thoughts and my life on the philosophical teaching of the Upanishads. I can therefore only discuss with you what I consider to be the central idea in our own religion.

Likewise, a path is meaningless division on a farm unless we understand that although at first glan ce it dived in reality it connects the farm with our neighbor. When we regard our self as the sole and final end, we separate the self from the great life of the world. As soon as we admit that the self must establish a harmonious relationship with the all, then for the first time, we realize what the word ‘freedom’ means. Until a poem reveals to us that unity of perfection that permeates the word and the grammar and transcends them, we find no joy in it. The world is like that poem: it is constituted of facts that may themselves constitute new discoveries to the explorer and illustrate new laws to the scientist, but never their significance - a significance which can only be comprehended through our spiritual vision. Because this truth of perfect inter relation goes far beyond mere facts or the contents of the poem, it carries us instantly across them, making us free, like the beauty of a rose that takes no time in leading our minds beyond the innumerable physical facts that flower to its ineffable harmony.

We have, in the Upanishads, the great saying

Only he knows the truth

Who realizes himself in all beings

And all other beings in himself

Let us try to understand this saying, for in understanding it we shall come to a truth which, as I said, lies at the basis of all we call civilization. An individual who succeeds n dissociating himself from his fellows may imagine that thereby he attains real freedom. But we know from our experience in history that this is not a fact, that where people live under the compulsion of fear of their neighbors they cannot attain their full humanity.

Only those who can cultivate a feeling of sympathy with others of understanding and of cooperation, achieve that relationship which is a great deal more that numerical fact of their all being on this Earth together. Civilization, itself the fruit of intercommunication, and of escape from the dungeons of obscurity, is producer of the arts, of literature, of religion and of ethics, all of which can embody external values.

They will never emerge from that kind of crowd which only represents an unrelated or imperfectly related numbers of people. The best and highest type of society is one that is forever active in trying to solve the problem of mutual relationship. Only thereby can wider areas of freedom for its members be acquired. For humanity, the perfect relationship is one of love.

This truth has been the foundation of the teaching of the Buddha. According to him, we can only reach our freedom through cultivating a mutual sympathy. To gain this freedom we need to liberate ourselves from the fetters of self and from all those passions that tend to be exclusive. It is this liberating principle that we must apply to an imprisoned world.

What we call ‘progress’ does not necessarily conform with this ideal. With a purely material progress the greed for things tends to become a passion, thereby promoting unbridled competition and conflict. A reign of ugliness spreads like a callus over the world. A mere addition to the height of skyscrapers or to the velocity of speed can lead to only a savage orgy of boasting and exaggeration. Along this road, the human spirit will be vanquished by the demon of senseless accumulation, and will remain the perpetual victim of a moral slavery.

From a talk Tagore gave in Argentina in 1924